Happier Together

Spend the first 30 days of 2025 building the relationship you long for. This easy, positive, and transformative couples challenge takes the guess work out of the process.

I've been using this challenge with couples in my private practice as a way to help them build a positive and intimate foundation between sessions. They've loved it! I think you will to.

If you want to learn more click the link below for all the details or sign up today. The first 50 people get a discount.

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Get the help your relationship needs.

I've been working with couples for 20 years. If you're facing challenges in your relationship, we won't just "process" what is happening. We'll find real solutions that you can take action on to change your relationship. Send me a message by clicking the button below to get started.

  • Free

Taking a "time out" during conflict.

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Learn this simple skill and the conflict in your relationship can become less overwhelming and more productive, actually leading to issues being resolved.

  • $12

The Conflict Cure: A Guide to Healthier Conflict

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Conflict is a normal part of any relationship. The challenge is many couples don't have a clear picture of what it means to move through conflict in a healthy way. This guide will give you a framework to do just that. You'll learn a set of skills to transform damaging conflict into something that actually resolves issues in the relationship.

  • $79

Navigating Conflict Well

  • 26 Lessons

Are you ready to go from repetitive and damaging conflict to something that builds intimacy and connection in your relationship?

Introducing "From Conflict to Connection: Navigating Conflict Well" an online course from What Healthy Couples Do.

Learn the scientifically proven methods that healthy couples use to transform their down-and-dirty fights into productive conflict that leads to actual resolution.
 

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Turn down the volume on anxiety

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Heart racing, short of breath, hands tingling... these are just a few of the physical symptoms of anxiety. There are proven techniques to do calm these symptoms. These aren't anecdotal self-help approaches but are techniques validated by peer-reviewed research. If you want to dial down the intensity of your body's reaction to anxiety this course is for you.

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What Healthy Couples Do

After 20 years of working with couples my goal is to take what I've learned and help others practice what healthy couples do.   If you're interested in transforming your relationship then you'll love the material on this page.