For couples who know their relationship could be better but don't know where to start
A Therapists Simple Daily System to Build Deep Connection Even If You Barely Have Time for Each Other Right Now.
Your relationship may feel adrift, or worse, like a ship caught in a storm. You want to move in a better direction but struggle to find the time or know exactly what to do.
What you need is a rudder to help you steer in the right direction.
In the same way a rudder can turn a massive ship, you'll be given small yet positive actions to move your relationship towards greater happiness and connection.
The secret to a happy relationship is small yet consistent moments of connection.
This 30 day couple's challenge will give you the guidance and support you need. If you're ready to chart a course towards a better "Us" sign up below.
Every day for 30 days you'll receive an email describing 1 of 3 activities.
The foundation of your relationship is built through small moments of connection. These moments happen in a variety of ways. You'll be given specific ways to connect with your partner. Think of it as laying a strong foundation of love, appreciation, affection, and attention.
Building on the foundation of connection, you'll dive into knowing one another in deeper ways. You'll be given a prompt to get you talking and tips to make the conversation successful. Plan to set aside a few minutes for these conversations, long enough to be meaningful but manageable to fit into your busy schedule.
The health of your relationship is directly related to how healthy each of you are as individuals. You'll take steps to build the best version of "you" for the relationship. Growing in how you show up as a partner is one of the keys to building a satisfying and lasting relationship.
* There needs to be space for "life" to happen. Every 7th day there will be no specific activity. This gives you a chance to catch up on anythng you missed during the week. You'll still receive an email where I'll share insights from my 20 years of helping couples in my private practice.
In addition to the daily emails, you'll take part in The Dating Game to make it easy to reignite romance and fun.
Relationships should be fun! You need undistracted time together to enjoy the relationship and build intimacy. As busy as you are, this isn't easy to do. During the next month, you'll each plan 2 dates (4 total for the month). You'll be given ideas to help along the way but of course let your romantic creativity run wild!
To help you stay motivated, there's a prize waiting for you if you complete all four dates. What's the prize? That's for the two of you to decide.
Don't worry if "dating" one another isn't a habit. You'll get the support you need to "win" the dating game and make this a fun experience!
The health of your relationship is no different than physical health. It takes consistent positive activity. With just a few minutes a day, you'll build deeper connection, grow in intimacy, and become a better partner for the relationship. All you need to do is open the daily email and make the small investments in your relationship.
I've been in private practice for 20 years helping couples build loving relationships. I wanted to give my clients something simple to use in between sessions. Happier Together was created to do just that. Based on my two decades working with couples, I'll guide you through the process of transforming your relationship.
I've had dozens of clients go through the challenge multiple times. They tell me the structure and consistency is what they've needed to get "unstuck". One couple in particular goes through the challenge once a quarter. You'll have all the content so you can do the same.
Life happens. If you need to slow the pace and finish the challenge in 60 days that's fine!
As a bonus for signing up, you'll recieve my guide, "The Conflict Cure". It will teach you how to turn normal conflict into something that builds rather than damages your relationship.
Absolutely! The challenge is designed with your busy schedule in mind. Most activities take less than 5 minutes a day.
That's up to you. The emails can come to a single person or you can provide both email addresses and have the activities sent to both of your inboxes. We recommend both people get the emails but you know your relationship best. Make the decision that is right for you as a couple.
You bet! We want this challenge to be both easy to do and affordable for anyone. We created Happier Together with the goal of helping any couple, regardless of their available time, life circumstances, or finances in mind.
Definitely. Growth will bring about challenges. We've included a number of resources to help you overcome them.
Yes. Your greatest point of leverage to change your relationship is in changing how you show up. We’ve seen relationships blossom primarily through the efforts of one partner. It's not easy but the challenge will give you the support and guidance to help you succeed.
I've spent the last 20 years in private practice helping couples overcome challenges and build the healthy relationships. Happier Together was created to give my clients an easy and positive way to invest in their relationship between sessions.
I found that working through problems became easier if the couple could not lose sight of what they loved about one another and made consistent positive deposits in their relationship. If you're wanting an easy and encouraging way to move your relationship to a more intimate place, you're going to love Happier Together.